Call Your Energy Back

How presence, gratitude, and nourishment reshape your brain and body

Most people think change comes from doing more.

More effort.
More discipline.
More fixing.

But neuroscience tells a different story.

Real transformation often comes from coming back.

Back to the present moment.
Back to your body.
Back to the energy you’ve been unconsciously giving away all day.

This isn’t fluff.
It’s how the nervous system works.

Your Attention Is Your Energy

From a neurological perspective, attention is not neutral.

Whatever you consistently focus on — people, problems, memories, imagined futures — activates specific neural networks in the brain. Those networks demand energy.

When attention is constantly pulled toward:

  • stress

  • guilt

  • resentment

  • fear

  • “what if” scenarios

  • mental replay

Energy leaves the body and gets locked into survival circuits.

Over time, this creates fatigue, irritability, brain fog, and the feeling that life is happening to you instead of through you.

The Brain’s Stress Loop (Default Mode Network)

Neuroscience identifies a network called the Default Mode Network (DMN).

It’s most active when:

  • the mind is wandering

  • we’re replaying the past

  • we’re worrying about the future

  • we’re self-judging or ruminating

The DMN is strongly associated with:

  • anxiety

  • depression

  • burnout

  • chronic stress

When this network is overactive, the brain uses a lot of energy without creating anything new.

Here’s the key finding:

Presence quiets the DMN.

Practices like:

  • mindful movement

  • prayer

  • meditation

  • gratitude

  • breath awareness

  • time in nature

  • nutrient-dense foods

  • focused presence with others

all reduce DMN activity.

That’s why presence feels relieving — not emotionally, but neurologically.

Why Coming Back to the Present Works

When you pause and return to the present moment, several things happen at once:

  • Brain activity shifts out of high beta (stress + vigilance)

  • The nervous system receives a signal of safety

  • The body begins to regulate itself

This shows up in very ordinary moments.

Rushing out the door.
One shoe on.
Keys in hand.
Phone buzzing.
A child asking a question.
Your breath already high in your chest.

That’s the moment.

Pause.
Feel your feet.
Soften your jaw.
Take one breath.

That single pause interrupts the stress loop.

The Vagus Nerve: Your Body’s Safety Switch

The vagus nerve is the main communication pathway between the brain, heart, lungs, and gut.

When it’s activated:

  • heart rate slows

  • digestion improves

  • inflammation decreases

  • emotional regulation increases

The vagus nerve responds to:

  • slow breathing

  • gratitude

  • prayer

  • singing or humming

  • gentle movement

  • safe connection

  • presence with children

Presence isn’t just something we practice for ourselves — our nervous systems co-regulate with our kids, and they feel it immediately.

When we slow down, they do too.

This is the body receiving the message:
“We are safe right now.”

Gratitude Is Not Positive Thinking — It’s Chemistry

Gratitude changes the body’s chemistry.

Short periods of intentional gratitude have been shown to:

  • lower cortisol (the stress hormone)

  • improve immune signaling (including IgA)

  • stabilize heart rhythms

  • support nervous system balance

Even 5–10 minutes of genuine appreciation can shift how the body functions for hours afterward.

Repeated daily, these signals teach the body that it’s living in a different internal environment.

Heart Rate Variability (HRV) & Coherence

Heart Rate Variability (HRV) measures how adaptable your nervous system is.

Higher HRV is linked to:

  • emotional resilience

  • better stress recovery

  • improved immune response

  • greater nervous system flexibility

Practices that increase HRV include:

  • slow, rhythmic breathing

  • gratitude and compassion

  • coherent movement, dance, exercise

  • hydration and mineral balance

Electrical signaling in the nervous system depends on minerals.
Without adequate minerals, the body has a harder time maintaining calm, steady signaling — which makes regulation harder to sustain.

This is where nourishment quietly matters.

Why Calm Requires Fuel

You can access calm, clarity, and presence —
but the body needs resources to hold those states.

Chronic stress depletes:

  • minerals

  • amino acids

  • antioxidants

  • nervous system reserves

So people slow down…
feel better briefly…
then snap back into old patterns.

Not because the practice failed —
but because the biology couldn’t sustain it.

Superfoods as Nervous System Support

Whole-food superfoods don’t override the nervous system.
They support it.

They provide:

  • amino acids for neurotransmitters (calm, focus, motivation)

  • minerals for electrical signaling and coherence

  • antioxidants to reduce stress-related inflammation

  • phytonutrients that support cellular energy

This makes it easier to:

  • regulate emotions

  • return to the present moment

  • recover faster from stress

  • stay grounded instead of reactive

In simple terms:

Nourishment makes presence easier.

From Survival to Creation

When stress chemistry quiets:

  • brain waves slow

  • coherence increases

  • intuition comes online

  • creativity returns

People often describe this as:
“I feel like myself again.”

They’re no longer living inside the past
or rehearsing the future.

They’re here.

And only here can something new be created.

A Simple Daily Practice

One to three times a day (5–10 minutes):

  • Nourish your body (hydration, real food, superfoods)

  • Pause

  • Breathe slowly

  • Generate gratitude or appreciation

  • When the mind wanders — return

Every return strengthens neural pathways.
Every return builds nervous system resilience.
Every return gives you your energy back.

Final Thought

You don’t need to escape your life.
You don’t need to fix yourself.

You need your energy back.

Presence does that.
Gratitude amplifies it.
Nourishment helps your body trust it.

And from there, your brain, your biology, and your life begin to reorganize —
not because you forced change,
but because you finally gave your system what it needed to come home.

🌿 Want Support Applying This?

If this resonated, reconnect with the person who shared this with you.

They can support you in applying these ideas through simple daily practices —
presence, movement, gratitude, aligned action, and nourishment —
so it’s not just something you read, but something you live.

You don’t have to do it alone.

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